Love is, an open conversation of what love is
About Love
Things I accept as true about love.
  1. Chemistry
  2. Common values
  3. compatibility
  4. Good "For" and Good "To"
Things I accept as not love.
  • Being Used is not love at all
  • Infatuation not love but can become love
  • Dependency
  • Lust
  • Jealousy
    (1)possessiveness,
    (2)fear of loss to an other suitor.
    These are mental disorders
Dichotomies:
  • Care and concern
  • Good relationship and Only pleasurable
  • Independence and Sharing:
    generally referred to as having space
  • Love and Marriage
  • Love and attraction.
  • Love and friendship.
  • Love and infatuation.
  • Love and sexual desire.
  • Loved for Yourself and what you have or are
  • Meaningful Relationships and shallow
  • Rejection and Acceptance
  • Sex and Intimacy:
    Intimacy can exist with out sex.
  • Sex and intimacy
  • Sexual and intellectual relationship?

Some common definitions of love
  • Love represents a magnetic attraction between two persons.
  • Love is a feeling of high emotional affiliation...which
    sends a person's ego to dizzying heights.
  • Love is the emotional feeling two people receive when they
    both have sexual and Platonic love in the proper proportions.
  • Love is the physical and mental compatibility of two people.
  • Love is the end result of a mature union of two compatible
    personalities.
  • Love is helping the other person whenever he needs it
    ...being his companion. It's having common goals,
    dreams, and ambitions.
  • Love is doing things together and liking it.
  • Love is giving--time, understanding, yourself.
  • Love is to give of oneself to another.
  • Love is giving trust.
  • Love is a give and take relationship--and mostly give.
  • Love is having security in being wanted and knowing
    you have someone to rely on.
  • When a person is in love, the world is right and a
    person has security.
  • Love for the girl is cooking for him, washing his clothes and
    keeping the home in order. For the man it is providing security,
    safety, and helping his wife.
  • Love is faithfulness to my mate and caring for our children."
  • Love hero worship, infatuation, sexual longings (being in
    lust or in heat, not in love), rebellious disrespect for your
    parents, or whatever.
A pretty good poem describing what love is

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Mission Statement
  • The greatest mysteries are:
    1. The origin of the universe. (incomprehensible)
    2. What Love is. (elusive or inconsistent)
  • Having been in LOVE, I know it is real.
  • After getting to a point where I could at least think
    of something else, I researched LOVE (I do that sort of
    thing), but still do not know all the answers. This page
    is a quest for answers.

  • It is a work sheet of what I know so far.