The Paradigm is something we think of as a "Truth". Sometimes things change and what was once true is no longer true. For example, one Greek philosophy once thought that the ability to write would reduce humans ability to remember information, ( I remember this because I read it.) Knowledge about things is not certain and final

 
 
 
 
 
 
As the rule of universal exception says: For every rule there is an Exception - Including this one.
Truths about human nature seem more enduring than those based on technology.
Do unto others as you would be done by
To Have friends, be a friend.

The Paradigm which we think of as a "Truth" and gives unexplained false results are the ones that need to be re-considered. The "Truths" that always work are good one and those that do not may not be.
By their results we will know them.

If we always do things a certain way and they turn out wrong, than do something different than that next time.
Doing what is Comfortable but Wrong, is still Wrong.

YES! It is hard, but so also is constant failure. We each are responsible for our actions and their results, and can not blame any one else.